The Pregnancy Countdown Book

Tell your S.O. you’ll talk to him when you wake up in the second trimester. (Location 694)

tell him that a clean bathroom would make you feel better. (Location 697)

Consider having your first paragraph of your birth plan be: “I would like to try the items I’ve outlined here with the understanding that they may not work or be possible. If that is the case (and barring any medical emergencies), I would like a labor nurse to help me understand my options and alternatives and to give me advice.” (Location 3079)